family values He never cared for me when we were married, & divorce made him nastier. It took another two years for me to say out loud to myself 'I want a divorce' and to actually call a lawyer. I threatened divorce all the time, assuring him that one day he would have to be a parent that turns up.
Psychological Abuse This is my future, try me. We did attempt therapy and when I raised the topic of his affairs he laughed and assured the therapist he had left no evidence.