Divorce

Divorce is an official or legal process to end a marriage. Including the separation of a couple who have not legally married.

DIvorce January Featured

Happy New Year!?

2026 and Divorce January - you might not be ready

Divorce

My Thoughts on Divorce for 2025

Something that I keep mulling over

Personal safety

You Lost Me at Password-Part I

Should passwords be protected from your spouse?

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Children of Divorce

Why can't he sign my birthday card?

Emotional Abuse

I never realised I was In danger until she asked if I was OK.

When the twins started senior school, I studied for a degree in something he 'approved' of. After all, he was paying the fees and wasn't going to waste a penny on me learning something worthless.

Childhood Abuse Featured

She told me my father didn’t love me enough to stay.

My mother abused the very part of me that was my father, and he presumed me to be my mother, I was disliked immensely by both parents till the day they died

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Adultery & Infidelity

I am madly in love with my ex-wife.

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Children of Divorce

I could have this many siblings. I don't want to know.

Parental Alienation

What to do and not do in a parental alienation situation.

I want you to make sure you don't compare everything your ex does as alienation and make false accusations that can cause unnecessary harm.

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Happily Married

I fell in love with my ex-husband

Burn out

He cared even less after we divorced.

It took another two years for me to say out loud to myself 'I want a divorce' and to actually call a lawyer. I threatened divorce all the time, assuring him that one day he would have to be a parent that turns up.

Divorce

OUR KIDS FIRST

It takes a village to raise a child, but not everybody has a village to turn to. We may not be aware that we can and should ask for help, but every community needs a Billy Katz to build a village.

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Controlling Ex

My divorce set-up looks perfect to you.

Financial Advice

When divorce needs Insurance and Financial Planning.

There is the other possibility that people don't say out loud enough, 'What if my ex stops paying or dies?'

Divorce Mediation

What are the benefits of Divorce Mediation?

Meetings today are in person or online, and it doesn't matter as long as both agree on the format. For some this can be beneficial, such as people who feel distressed in the presence of their soon-to-be ex-spouse

Family Expectations

How did I not know?

I met my husband at a work event, American-born with Iranian parents. It was as though we spoke the same language. He understood my ways, and I learnt the American ways through him. He was privileged and seemed to know everything about anything.

Coaching

Matthew Pruen Relationship Coach Part II

Divorce can be traumatic, the death of a dream once created during the high of falling in love is now painful and unbearable. This trauma is no different from a bereavement, and with it comes the perceived threat of survival.

Expert Series

Accountants & Divorce in the UK.

We all hear stories about someone's ex hiding money or assets - this is illegal. If you havent started your divorce, now is the time to gather as much information as possible

Valentine's Day

Re-design your Valentine's Day.

Divorce awakens a spectrum of emotions that can leave you feeling out of control and somewhat irrational. A reminder of what was, even if you called it quits. It can be even more challenging when your ex appears to have swiftly moved on.

Childhood Abuse Featured

My father used me to stay close to my mother.

I learnt to sit quietly, not make a nuisance of myself and daydream. I went from being very bright and curious to having 'learning issues'. Society was cruel, and I was punished for having divorced parents.

Divorce & Finances

He is not the man I married.

No longer telling her she hadn't achieved anything in her life, he started to assure her she was a crap mother. He began to undermine every single decision she made.

Controlling Ex

This is my future, try me.

We did attempt therapy, and when I raised the topic of his affairs he laughed and assured the therapist he had left no evidence.

Abusive Marriage Featured

Abuse can catch you by surprise.

Leaving an abusive relationship takes careful planning, logistics, and support. Without that support and protection, the abused often return, or worse.

Expert Series

Free Divorce Advice and Support from The ExExperts

Two best friends, two cheating husbands, two very different divorce experiences; one easy and one that took four years. They quickly learnt how hard it was to navigate and created The ExExperts.

Children of Divorce

Divorce took a chunk out of me

I hated going to my dad and I dreaded coming home to my mum. Neither home was emotionally safe for me,