Children of Divorce Both Parents Matter! A UK Charity, supporting parents through the hardest of alienating times.
Future Planning We Look So Perfect. Look Again We all responded in bizarre ways, but mine was a hit list of lasts.
Infidelity & Betrayal There Is an Elephant in the Room, and That Elephant Is Me I want to stop this pattern where I self-destruct
Men of Divorce Happy Father's Day! I know that most of you see less of your children than you would like, that you miss out on the small moments and feel forgotten.
Children of Divorce My Thoughts About Co-Parenting During Exam Stress I want your child not to be scared to tell you, 'I need one room and one schedule whilst I am studying and taking exams'. Would you be offended?
Children of Divorce As a Child of Divorce, I Am Outstanding at Packing I never felt wanted at my father's home on weekend 'visits'
Step Parents & Blended Family My Bedroom or Hers? One dinner party I heard Isabella laugh that out loud that at least I wasn't sleeping in the cupboard under the stairs
Children of Divorce Mother's Day. My Experience as the 'Disappointing' Child What does Mother's Day mean to you?
Children of Divorce Family Dinners Cause Me Anxiety The silence between mum and dad was eerie. A sigh here, a cough there. A gulp and a small pat on the thigh.
Children of Divorce Why Can't He Sign My Birthday Card? He does this thing where he drives by late at night and pops it through our letterbox like he is a weird version of Santa.
Children of Divorce Featured She Told Me My Father Didn't Love Me Enough to Stay My mother abused the very part of me that was my father, and he presumed me to be my mother, I was disliked immensely by both parents till the day they died
Children of Divorce I Could Have This Many Siblings. I Don't Want to Know How many siblings does she have? She doesn't know and she doesn't want to know.
Expert Series What to Do and Not Do in a Parental Alienation Situation I want you to make sure you don't compare everything your ex does as alienation and make false accusations that can cause unnecessary harm.
Co-Parenting He Cared Even Less After We Divorced It took another two years for me to say out loud to myself 'I want a divorce' and to actually call a lawyer.
Expert Series Our Kids First It takes a village to raise a child, but not everybody has a village to turn to. We may not be aware that we can and should ask for help, but every community needs a Billy Katz to build a village.
Children of Divorce I Needed Him to Be My Daddy, Not His With daddy in another city, my brother and I got to fly as unaccompanied minors- I loved it, the tags around our necks, the air stewardesses making a fuss of us, and then turning up to his home and enjoying the lack of rules, the lack of healthy food and the unrestricted bedtime.
Children of Divorce Featured My Father Used Me to Stay Close to My Mother I learnt to sit quietly, not make a nuisance of myself and daydream. I went from being very bright and curious to having 'learning issues'. Society was cruel, and I was punished for having divorced parents.
Children of Divorce This Was My Christmas After They Divorced Christmas marketing reminding me that my life was already a failure, that I was an outcast from societal norms.
Abuse & High Conflict Featured Abuse Can Catch You by Surprise Leaving an abusive relationship takes careful planning, logistics, and support. Without that support and protection, the abused often return, or worse.
Children of Divorce Featured Divorce Shattered My Youth The psychologist had shared my private sessions with my Mum...
Children of Divorce Divorce took a chunk out of me I hated going to my dad and I dreaded coming home to my mum. Neither home was emotionally safe for me.
Personal Story The Timing Was Right Until It Wasn't My children have suffered and continue to suffer and it hurts me that I can't shield them from this madness.
